Please bear in mind, when I blog...it's about things that obviously affected me in some way--whether small or big. They are merely a glimpse at a moment that I had away...not really my complete view on the subject.
Also, I am having an amazing time, don't get me wrong. Just want to share with you the backwards logic of some things abroad. Travelling only increases my American pride. America rocks! I can say that for many reasons. Reason #1:
After being away for over a month, living the backpacker life, (cooking most meals in the hostel kitchen) I decided to go out for a nice dinner. Working in the hospitality industry, there is nothing more enjoyable than going out for a nice diner and being waited on. (because we do it for a living, it's just nice to sit back and be served. yeah?!?)
Anyway. After travelling a bit myself, America is really the only place you go to "dine" out. When I first worked abroad in London, I was shocked to learn that it was rude to clear an empty plate if others were still eating. OK. It's a cultural thing. Leave dirty plates until everyone is done eating. Get it. Don't bring the check until it is asked for. get it. (or you look rude--trying to rush guests out the door.)
When I worked in Oz, the same rules applied. Service in a restaurant means: take the order, bring the food, and bring the check when asked.
It's just so different. Not wrong, just different. When I go out, I want to be waited on. Treated like royalty to some extent, yeah? You are waiting on me right?!
Since I have been away, I have met many travellers in the Hospitality industry. They all say, "I don't understand why you tip so much in America." Well, it's because we have high standards for the service which we receive. If service staff is not incentivized, (ie tips) why would they offer good service, or got the extra mile? Maybe that is why there is a lack of good service abroad. It's human nature; if people have nothing to gain personally, why would they apply themselves?
ok--enough whinning---America is great! I love it! The people that speak ill-y about it are just envious. So, take my word for it. We live in an amazing country.
Now please, don't take these words and think that you don't need/or want to travel, cuz America is the shit! Do travel. Increase your pride. It is an amazing experience. Even BAD service in a restaurant, is GREAT experience. Love it. Do it. Travel...
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Jerilyn!! This is going to sounds weird but it was good to hear your voice on the sea lion video. Minnesota just isn't the same without you!!
I'm glad you read my blog-- at least someone does! Haha!! Can't wait to read more about your adventures!
Still check your blog....Schulte and I sometimes talk about it too. Anyways, you were in my dream the other night (nobody get perverted now). You came to the Z on Pokegama for Christmas and then were going back to NZ. Strange. Maybe because the Pelican Crew is coming for the Ugly Sweater party (can't wait to see them!!) and you are usually with. I will wear my best sweater for you and probably have some drinks for you....ok, who am I kidding, I WILL be having drinks. We miss you!
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